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Kids say the craziest things, but sometimes its the parents who drop the biggest bombs.
And let us tell you, this truth stings more than a bee on a spring day.
They wake up at the crack of dawn and guess whos there with them?
Hes up every morning with the kids between 5:30 and 6:00 AM.
She rolls out of bed at 7:30 on weekdays and enjoys her beauty sleep until 9:00 on weekends.
Thats a solid 13 hours more a week that dad is spending with the little ones.
Thats all dad too.
Baths, stories, the whole shebang.
It adds up to about 7 hours a week.
And whenever moms feeling stressed and needs some me time, dad takes the kids out for some fun.
Hes the one handling all the extracurricular activities and playdates too.
In short, hes spending a lot more time with the kids than she is.
Now,daddidnt drop this truth bomb in a whiny or bitter way.
He genuinely enjoys spending time with his kids.
He feels its a bit unfair for his wife to complain when shes not putting in as much time.
Researchindicates that young children create attachment hierarchies, prioritizing somerelationshipsabove others.
But even after their chat, it seems like nothing changed.
Lets get real:parentingis definitely a tough job and everyone needs a break every now and then.
It helps with their emotional development and provides a balanced upbringing.
Having both parents actively present in their lives fosters a sense of stability and security.
Children thrive in environments where they feel safe and loved.
Having both parents actively participating in their kids lives also helps them build a stronger sense of self-esteem.
In the end, its all aboutbalance.
Parenting is like a team sport, where everyone needs to be actively participating.
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