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Boundaries are always important.
In short, youre building a foundation of mutual respect.
But this is easier said than done.
Unfortunately, people, even good friends, overstep boundaries all the time.
Sometimes, they are seemingly inspired by romantic comedies.
One anonymous woman went viral on the internet after asking for relationship advice.
Naturally, she was shocked.
Youll find the full story, including a very important update that went viralonline, below.
Scroll down to see what happened and how the internet reacted.
You also want to be there for them when the going gets tough.
A good rule of thumb is not to make a run at dismantle anyones romantic relationships.
Its common sense, but that tends to go out the window when strong feelings like love get involved.
Real friendship is hard work.
It is about give and take in both good and bad times; it is not selfish.
It is about slowly letting someone into your world and allowing them to do the same, Hojjat explains.
Once a friendship is established, its important to maintain it, regardless of physical distance or busy schedules.
If you havent heard from a friend in a while, call them.
Perhaps they are in a bad place, and they need your support.
Even the strongest bonds can fade if they arent nurtured.
According to her, you have to be willing to renegotiate friendships.
She continued: The other thing you better do is be accepting.
Its worth considering that your friend has her own stuff going on too.
And ask yourself: What kind of friend have I been?
Possibly, Ive let her down and I need to be more supportive.
So its worth reflecting on from both sides.
Respect them enough to be tactful
Life doesnt work like the popular rom-coms you enjoy at the cinema.
A last-minute declaration of love or a dramatic gesture can work wonders on the silver screen.
If theyre already dating someone, dont wreck it.
If theyre single, you’re able to bring the topic up.
Be ready for the possibility of getting rejected.
Just because you have a crush on someone does not necessarily mean that theyll reciprocate those same romantic feelings.
make a run at react to whatever answer you get with respect and dignity.
Youre still friends after all.
Accept their no for what it is.
Dont pressure the other person or pursue them further if they clearly tell you that theyre not interested.
Take that for a very empathetic and kind rejection.
Good friends respect each others boundaries and can handle rejection.
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