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Its impossible to be in a great mood 100% of the time.

But these bad days should be rare occurrences, not the norm.

But she was not impressed when she found out what was going on behind her back.

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Below, youll find the full story that this dad recentlypostedon Reddit, as well as a conversation withDr.

Lisa Marie Bobby, founder of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching.

Lisa Marie Bobby, founder ofGrowing SelfCounseling and Coaching.

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dr. Bobby was kind enough to have a chat withBored Pandaand share her thoughts on this situation.

This mothers irritability is clearly a pattern.

Its so predictable that theyve developed a system for managing it!

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

In the process, youre abandoning yourself and disregarding your own feelings.

Its teaching them to set their own feelings and needs aside to pander to an adults moods.

As a couple, I think theyd also benefit from some counseling.

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Its clear that theyve developed some unhealthy ways of managing conflict that will take some work to unpack.

The expert also recommends that the mother start seeing a therapist.

Check out the results:

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage

Dad Gets A Wake-Up Call After People Tell Him Wife’s “Bad Days” Are Not For Him To Manage