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Grandparentsarent always the sweet old people you hope theyd be.

Some are entitled, some are overbearing, and others can be downright mean.

This can leave parents in a sticky situation when it comes to letting toxic pensioners visit their grandkids.

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They wont let her see her grandson often enough.

And the childs reaction to hearing her name?

But instead of respecting their boundaries, the grandmother reportedly began spreading a dangerous lie.

Distraught couple on sofa after altercation about neglectful MIL and CPS threat, with woman holding a mug.

Shes tellingfamilymembers that theyre neglecting their sonand thats why theyre hiding him from her.

The rumor is baseless, but its terrifying.

OP says no one in the family believes her, yet she continues escalating the situation.

Text of a complaint about a neglectful MIL threatening to call CPS if not allowed to see her grandson.

Shes even considering calling Child Protective Services (CPS) on them.

OP, understandably panicked, turned to an onlinecommunityfor advice.

Hes unsure what to do or whatrecordsto keep.

Neglectful MIL frequently screams and curses at grandson, parents limit contact for child’s well-being.

Hes wondering if he should document everything, collect medical records, and start a paper trail.

The threat alone feels like emotional blackmail.

But when someone is unstable and determined to stir trouble, even an unfounded accusation can cause chaos.

Text describing a child’s fear of his neglectful grandma when he hears the word “grandma.

From what OP tells us in his post, his future mother-in-law is a walkingnightmare.

So, how can the couple protect themselves from the toxic woman?

And what should they do if CPS does show up?

Child with red hair and plaid shirt wipes eyes, standing in a cozy kitchen setting.

We went looking for answers.

Next, they need to ask what the allegations are.

Check out the results:

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Text describing neglectful MIL as unstable and selfish, expressing distrust from family and friends.

Text-based image discussing preparation against threats from a neglectful MIL calling CPS on parents.

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Text discussing concerns about a neglectful MIL threatening family with CPS.

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Text recounts a story about CPS investigations by a neglectful MIL, discussing living conditions and past family experiences.

Text advice on dealing with neglectful MIL threats involving CPS.

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Screenshot of a Reddit comment discussing a grandmother lacking evidence to accuse parents of neglect.