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Lets get something very clear: the happy couple is free to plan theirweddinghowever they want…

However, they shouldnt be surprised if their guests are flabbergasted by theirbizarre decisions.

Youll find our full interview with them below, however, they asked to be kept anonymous.

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However, they were otherwise happy to share how they felt about the entire bizarre wedding experience.

They opened up to Bored Panda about how they felt about the four-day wedding.

We thought we were really close with the couple.

Smiling couple posing for cameras during an outdoor wedding, surrounded by guests holding smartphones.

The author said that their expectations definitely clashed with reality.

Once we were there, however, we saw it as a good thing.

They said that they were actually quite relieved they werent there for all four days of the wedding.

Four-day wedding event described as social media photo shoot experience.

Naturally, most couples wouldnt want their family and friends going hungry or being bored.

Get the basics right and move on from there.

for the night, no one will have a good time, the Knot highlights.

Four-day wedding agenda with brunch, ceremony, reception, and dinner, featuring different guests at each event.

You two, the beaming newlyweds, are the North Star of this party.

Reputation is important, sure.

But not when it comes to the cost of authentic, realrelationshipsand friendships.

Text on a page describing a long wedding attended by multiple guests.

Itsbizarreif you dont invite some of your guests to the actual ceremony.

However, what u/that1guy-Umet1time described sounds like a genuinely abysmal event.

Simply put, its weird to invite people to your wedding and then not provide the absolute basics.

Text describing a bride aiming to recreate her SIL’s wedding over a 4-day long celebration.

And asking everyone to pitch in to pay for their own food is not the best look.

Check out the results:

Text from a 4-day wedding; SIL managing tasks and coordinating events.

Text recounting a 4-day wedding where a bride, in a velvet wrap dress, refused to delay photos for a family member.

Text from article describing a couple spending most of their wedding posing for photos.

Elegant wedding table setup with floral centerpieces and crystal glassware outdoors.

Text about a couple’s wedding reception issues, mentioning uninvited guests and divided family groups.

Text describing a couple posing for cameras during a lengthy wedding event, with focus on photography over guests.

Text recounts a couple’s lengthy wedding focused on photo sessions, leading to un-greeted guests departing early.

Text describing a couple’s lengthy wedding focused on posing for photos, creating tension with the groom’s family.

Couple posing for cameras during their extended wedding celebration.

Text from a wedding highlighting a surprise bill for guests and a request to withhold photos until after the bride posts.

Wedding couple poses for cameras; guests left as dinner swarmed by bugs.

Text from a wedding describing a cocktail hour without drinks, music, or food, where everyone stands on a pavilion.

Text describing a couple’s wedding dinner at a fancy restaurant where guests received bills.

Elegant wedding dinner setting with gourmet dishes and sparkling wine, highlighting luxurious celebration details.

Wedding couple posing for a camera by a lake, with a videographer capturing the moment during a multi-day celebration.

Two women with coffee cups engaged in conversation at a modern indoor setting, featuring warm colors and greenery.

Reddit comments discussing a couple’s lengthy wedding and guests complaining about the posed photos.

Discussion about couple’s wedding focusing on photo sessions.

Online conversation about a 4-day wedding, discussing taking and posting pictures before the bride shared any.

Comment discussing a four-day wedding, mentioning guests' experiences and modern wedding trends.

Online comment discussing a four-day-long wedding focused on posing for cameras.

Reddit user Common-Job2277 comments, “a salad bar dinner ????”, questioning the meal choice.

Text recounting a 4-day wedding where a couple poses for cameras, leaving guests unattended in snowy conditions.

Couple’s 4-day wedding celebration, guests enjoying activities and posing for cameras, text describing a Polish-American wedding.

Comment criticizing the expenses and aftermath of a long wedding.

Reddit comment discussing a couple’s multi-day wedding and photo sessions.

Screenshot of a comment criticizing a couple’s four-day wedding, mentioning vacation days.

Comment about a 4-day wedding focusing on wedding edition humor.

Screenshot of a comment discussing a couple’s social media presence during their 4-day wedding.

Text comment: “Repay us for the dinner that we got charged for and we won’t post the photos.” by emax4.

Reddit comment criticizing a couple’s 4-day wedding.

Comment questioning how a couple will photograph their divorce after a photo-heavy 4-day wedding.

Online comment about people’s focus on wedding attention over marriage.