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Helping out afriendwho lost their housing due to unemployment is a very good and noble thing to do.
So letting someone just stay on your couch or in your extra bedroom is a time-honored tradition.
Unfortunately, some folks out there are perfectly willing to abuse someones hospitality even when they are ostensibly friends.
This is likely the reason humans have widespread and often pretty intense guest rules.
After all, what is a society or nation if not people who arent your family members?
If you dont have a structure to care for them, the family remains the largest possible unit.
The real kicker is her threatening self-harm when given six weeks to move out.
This goes beyond unreasonable and is downright manipulative and evil.
If one was to do this in a relationship, it would be considereddomestic abuse.
Doing this to ones hosts is both shortsighted and really reflects poorly on her.
In other words, she would not be unreasonable to turn six weeks into six days now.
Regardless, if that is extreme, she should at least be very firm about this.
Six weeks, not a day more.
Threatening to harm herself and just using her friends resources is bad enough.
While she hasnt exactlydestroyedanything, enough is enough.
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