Unfortunately, sometimes those around them manage to ruin the uniqueness of theoccasion.
In the OPs case, it was the familys kids.
What makes everything worse is that even if they do get to do that, chaos still happens.
Even today, some people believe that blowing out candles might make wishes come true.
Thats unless theyre in the OPs family.
In his family, the 5-6-year-old nieces and nephews always get to do it before the birthday person.
Now, if they arent allowed to do it, the obnoxious session of crying and screaming follows.
Yet, even when they are allowed to, there is no guarantee that there wont be chaos.
You see the never-ending cycle of crying mayhem.
It basically reinforces the fact in kids minds that the whole world revolves around them and their wishes.
Plus, the reinforcement of this toxic behavior scares awayfamilymembers.
So, its alienating not only to family members but possibly friends to kids too.
Overall, not a good situation.
Netizens agreed with the sentiment.
They pointed out that their age is appropriate enough to nip this kind of behavior in the bud.
In the long run, it will be beneficial both for them and the people around them.
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