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Families can literally fight over anything, even something as mundane as a name.
But wars have been fought for far more ridiculous things, so this doesnt really come as a surprise.
Whilefamilyconflicts are pretty common, the way they are handled and resolved differs on a great scale.
But there are some people who just tend to worsen things rather than fix them.
But that didnt include everyone.
Herbrotherand sister-in-law sent her a nasty message that they were angry about the name.
That was why they refused to speak with her.
Even herparentsand sister were confused by this strange reaction from thecouple.
But, folks, it didnt end there, theres still more spice left to the story.
The sister-in-law said to the family that they might allow OP to use Oliver as a middle name.
However, if she used it as a first name, she could wave goodbye to their relationship.
Well, that sounds a little ridiculous, doesnt it?
The woman mustve been distressed by such a statement.
And she does have a point.
And they even live in two different countries.
So, it doesnt even seem to matter, really.
But the stubborn couple refused to speak with her, despite weeks having passed since the incident.
As perVerywell Mind, Entitled people feel like people should do things for them because of who they are.
When someone doesnt give in to their demands, they will cause a big scene.
They may be very dramatic when something does not go their way.
We can see that the brother and sister-in-law tick all the boxes here.
They feel they can just order the woman to change the newborns name even when they live countries apart.
They also got extremely dramatic by stating that they would end the relationship if she didnt listen to them.
Looks like their entitlement knows no bounds!
Researchalso suggests, Entitlement is a narcissistic personality trait.
Entitled people often see themselves as superior to others.
Its no surprise that this way of thinking affects interpersonal relationships.
This outsized desire for control is unhealthy, unhelpful, and may create relationship conflicts.
Controlling people are often inflexible and insist that everything needs to be their way.
They often wont adapt and may not be open to others suggestions or points of view.
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