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Long-distance relationships are tricky.
And then, finally, the big moment arrives: meeting in person.
But what happens when that long-awaited reunion doesnt go as planned?
They bonded over the same interests and deep conversations.
She even started introducing him to friends and family as her boyfriend.
Naturally, the next step was meeting in person.
And so, he booked aflightand made the trip to finally be with her.
However, the moment he arrived, reality hit hard.
His girlfriendsanxiety, something she had previously mentioned, became a major obstacle.
Their time together was limited, disjointed, and far from the romantic reunion he had envisioned.
Instead of spending quality time with hisgirlfriend, he found himself alone in his hotel for the most part.
When she did invite him out, it was to a group event where they barely interacted.
Even after she reassured him that she was still interested, her actions told a different story.
Some may even experience sensory overload or panic, as in-person interactions remove the protective barrier of distance.
I believe in offering reassurance, but dont take on the role of a therapist.
Its not your job to fix them, she advised.
For those struggling with anxiety, Okezie suggested that its very important to ease into in-person relationships gradually.
Start with low-pressure meetups, like a short coffee date instead of an all-day event, Okezie recommended.
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