Food, goodie bags, activities, and even seating depend on having an accurate headcount.

Eight year olds can be pretty picky, up to the point of going hungry for an entire day.

Beyond logistics, RSVPing also shows basic respect.

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If someone invites your child, it means they want them there.

Not responding at all can feel dismissive, as if the invitation didnt matter.

Its a simple act of consideration that helps everyone involved.

Children at a birthday party looking at a cake, wearing party hats, and surrounded by balloons and decorations.

After all, the end result is kids not having lunches through no fault of their own.

Of course, this opens up its own can of worms.

What if she made four extra lunches and six unexpected kids showed up?

Text about kids' birthday party with no food due to RSVP issues, mentions bouncy castle and 40 children attending.

Should two just go hungry?

After all, while the optics arent great, its important to remember who could have prevented this.

Check out the results:

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Text detailing a second invite request for RSVPs due to food allergies and individual lunch boxes for a child’s party.

Invitation text stating no food without RSVP for kids' party, highlighting RSVP importance.

Text about coordinating extra food for siblings due to lack of RSVPs at a kids' birthday party.

Text discussing challenges with RSVPing for events due to work and contact issues.

Text messages about RSVP confusion for a kid’s birthday, parents apologize and confirm attendance, addressing food issue.

Text about kids' party attendance issues due to no RSVP from parents.

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Text discussing parents missing events even with RSVP, affecting kids' food situation at a birthday party.

Text describing a school mom’s surprise about not providing extra food at a birthday due to no RSVP.

Text explaining why tailored food boxes were chosen over a buffet due to allergies.

Text debate on RSVP responsibility at a kid’s birthday, mentioning YABU and YANBU perspectives on food planning.

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“Children Weren’t Fed”: Host Enforces RSVP Rule, Sparks Debate After Parents Throw A Fit

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Text message about invites not being acknowledged, leading to issues at a kids' birthday event without RSVP.

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Comment discussing parents not RSVP’ing to a birthday, mentions entitlement.

Text exchange about RSVP issues for a kid’s party, discussing no-shows and last-minute cancellations.

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Text discussing kids without food at a birthday due to parents not RSVPing, emphasizing fairness and spare options.

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Text expressing sadness for kids at a birthday with no food due to parents not RSVPing.

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