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Infidelity in many cases means breakup or divorce.
In fact,Psych Centralnotes that cheating is one of the main causes that lead couples to divorce.
Well, only for him to find out that his wife is now cheating on him.
OP highlighted that he cheated only once and his wife has a relationship with this guy.
After this, his wife left and he hasnt seen her for a few days.
He shares that he feels like he deserves it, but also wants his wife back.
Community members didnt buy this and simply shared that he cheated first and the whole situation is his fault.
You feel betrayed??
Maybe think about that the next time you have a one-time drunken fling, one user wrote.
Relationship was dead as soon as you thought she forgave you.
Somebody once said even if you get her back, itll never be the same, another added.
This key in of betrayal of trust leaves a deep scar that never truly disappears, she emphasizes.
Once trust has been broken, its very hard to put the pieces back together.
Its like a beautiful piece of china that has a crack.
That crack will always be there.
you’re able to take a stab at glue it.
you could venture to pretend its not there.
But the fissure is the ever-present reminder of the betrayal that occurred, she adds.
Some people will never ever be able to look at their partner the same way again.
And if that is the truth for you, that is your truth.
Others have a more objective view of the ebb and flow of a relationship over time.
They understand that sexual exploration is not always emotional commitment.