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When planning awedding, considering who to invite is a crucial step.

The Knotclaimsthat the average size of a U.S. wedding in 2023 was 115 people.

This bride singled out one cousin when it came to her wedding.

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Because the rest of the family was invited, the young woman assumed she was, too.

However, when she showed up at the ceremony, her appearancecaused a scene.

Shesought opinionsfrom netizens: was coming to this wedding without an official invitation so wrong?

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

We also reached out to the young woman in question,u/Imaginary-Active5980.

Read our conversation below!

Honestly, Ive always seen her as another one of mysiblings, the Redditor told Bored Panda.

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

The relationship remained close even when the cousin moved away for college.

However, last year something changed.

The women barely talked at family gatherings on Christmas, birthday parties, and Easter.

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

At first, the author just thought it was because the cousins boyfriend was present.

She asked things like Hows school?

or What are you doing again?

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

when we used to talk about ourfailed relationshipsand friend drama together.

So, I guess thats when I really realized that something had changed.

Although, I dont think that could happen realistically, she adds immediately.

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

However, the women most probably will be seeing each other at family gatherings.

The author says it will probably be only polite handshakes and sitting at the same table.

Maybe in the future, we might overcome this, but it seems unlikely, she admits.

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

The first one is that she always felt uncomfortable with the OPs sexual orientation to some degree.

Maybe shed even cut off her parents if he asked her to, u/Imaginary-Active5980 theorizes.

Check out the results:

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust

Bride Throws Cousin Under The Bus To Impress Conservative In-Laws, Wedding Goes Bust