Awhopping 68%of females said their relationships with their husbands mothers ranged from mildly to severely strained.
Madeleine A. Fugereweighed in on this question, saying that women experiencing this arent alone.
Because of these preferences, mothers-in-law may choose someone entirely different for their children.
This may lead to an initial dislike from an in-law perspective, which can be difficult to overcome.
Mothers are also used to having an authoritative role, doing all the caretaking and decision-making.
Research even suggests they may worry about being excluded when their child finds a new partner.
Additionally, some of the most intense conflicts over partner preferences between in-laws and adult children occur over attractiveness.
However, mothers shouldnt be authoritative or influence their familys decisions.
If the parents overstep their boundaries, the relationship can quickly become difficult.
This may include how often they visit the husbands mother and how long she can stay in their home.
Taking one-on-one time with in-laws can also make the bond stronger and reduce the possibility of conflict.
If thats already achieved, maintaining mutual respect will keep things going smoothly.
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