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Writing a novel is a deeply personal journey.

For some, its a hobby, but for others, it becomes a part of their identity.

This came as a surprise to her because hed never mentioned it before.

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For the OP, it wasnt just about losing notes, but about the lack of communication andrespect.

She felt heartbroken, because theirrelationshipwasnt a casual one.

His family had paid for her college semester, and her family had taken him on vacation.

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By all accounts, they were serious.

But this incident had shaken everything up.

She went further to explain that open communication is always the better approach.

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At this point, we asked if it was possible for personal passions and relationships to thrive together.

To this, she responded, What is most important is the kind of person you are with.

She explained that both can absolutely thrive together, but setting boundaries is key.

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However, if their disapproval becomestoxicor controlling, it may be a sign that the relationship isnt sustainable.

From this perspective, breaking up seems justified.

However, this is not to say that this isnt something that can be resolved.

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It can be, she added.

She emphasized that it can be resolved, especially if its a long term relationship.

If you could give the OP one piece of advice, what would it be?

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We would love to hear your thoughts!

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