After all, if you dont set boundaries, you might find yourself getting taken advantage of for years.

To make matters worse, he doesnt contributefinanciallyor even help out around the house.

She took to Mumsnet to vent.

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OP then reveals the issue: her partners brother just never left.

According to Gupta, self-advocacy is crucial for several reasons.

While the journey might be challenging, the rewardspeace, fulfillment, and freedomare worth every step.

Frustrated woman packing boxes in a kitchen, dealing with a deadbeat freeloader situation.

It seems OP finally got the memo after 5 long years.

Check out the results:

Text expressing frustration over a deadbeat freeloader BIL overstaying his visit, leading to a breakup and move out decision.

Text describing a frustrated woman’s relationship woes involving a freeloader brother-in-law.

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Text about a frustrated woman dealing with a freeloader brother-in-law who overstayed his visit.

Text describing frustration with a deadbeat freeloader BIL who doesn’t contribute financially, causing relationship issues.

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Text about frustrations with a deadbeat freeloader, financial struggles, and unequal expenses.

Fed up woman decides to move out, leaving boyfriend and frustrating freeloader behind.

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Text conversation about a freeloading brother-in-law overstaying his welcome, leading to frustration and breakup.

Text conversation about a deadbeat freeloader brother-in-law visiting and not returning home.

Text conversation about a woman’s frustration with her boyfriend and freeloading brother-in-law.

Text exchange about financial contributions and relationship frustrations with a deadbeat freeloader brother-in-law.

Text exchange about privacy issues and moving out from a frustrating living situation with a freeloader brother-in-law.

Text comment on frustration with a deadbeat freeloader BIL overstaying their welcome.

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“Comment praising a woman for moving out after dealing with a deadbeat freeloader BIL.

Comment from BitOutOfPractice about a relative overstaying their welcome and not contributing.