That is what happened to a guy whoseex-girlfriendcouldnt accept that he had moved on.
Weirdly enough, he recorded everything to prove his innocence to his girlfriend.
That led to countless moments where he would console or reassure her, which obviously made the OP uncomfortable.
Jessica has a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology and studied relationship dynamics at the University of Waterloo.
She is also a featured columnist forLove Learnings.
We asked her why its so hard for some people to move on after a breakup.
As time passes, these feelings should subside naturally.
When someone cant get over an ex, its often due to other problems in their own life.
Typically, it means they lack self-esteem and confidence.
So, when the OP and her partner moved in together, the ex-girlfriend broke down completely.
Jessicaadvised that people should set firm boundaries and separate completely from their ex.
Theyre doing them no favors by continuing to humor them.
Take space from your ex and go no-contact as soon as possible.
Winnie went over to her exs house and spent time with him in his bed.
She was still unsure whether James had done anything wrong by comforting his Winnie.
Jessica Bossexplained that video evidence aside, spending time in bed with your ex is never acceptable in arelationship.
Its emotional and physical cheating and shows a lack of respect for the relationship and for his girlfriend.
They may not have [been intimate], but its still not okay.
Not by a long shot.
She said, It shouldnt be up to the girlfriend to set boundaries here.
All she can do is clearly express her discomfort with their relationship.
Theboyfriendneeds to make it clear to his ex that he isnt interested and that she needs to move on.
Check out the results:
