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A healthy relationship is supposed to help you grow and shape you into the best version of yourself.
Both partners share love, respect, and want whats best for each other.
On the flip side, a toxicrelationshipcan cause massive damage to a persons self-esteem and self-worth.
The boyfriend was doing that and even bragged about it to his friend.
Emotional manipulatorswant to create an imbalance of power and take advantage of the other person.
This can happen in casual relationships, but more often than not, it happens between very close people.
To understand how such manipulation can affect a persons self-confidence and their relationship,Bored PandainterviewedShikah Anuar.
She used to work as a counselor with a government ministry in Singapore.
Now, she uses her counseling skills to create workbooks and workshops for life coaches.
I would say that people who enjoy having low-confidence partners have great insecurities.
He said that many people do in fact prey on insecurities, but not intentionally.
Their unconscious wounds are attracted to their partners unconscious wounds.
The poster decided to end the relationship and did not want to explain anything to her scumbag boyfriend.
This is because most people dont truly know themselves well enough.
Knowing yourself comes from personal development work, introspection, life coaching, therapy, etc.
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