One minute youre flirting over fries, the next youre cutting grapes into quarters.

Its not just a relationship its a package deal.

No tantrums, no sippy cups, just candlelight and maybe some pasta that isnt shaped like dinosaurs.

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Will…and Will Jr.

The OP didnt even sit down.

Just saw the situation, turned on her heels, made a U-turn, and left.

Couple holding hands at a romantic dinner with wine and a lit candle on a checkered tablecloth.

If this were the first time, youd think the OP was just being dramatic.

No custody agreement, no boundaries, just random I need you to take him now calls.

Its like shes had a GPS tracker on their romance.

Text conversation about a man’s ex discovering his dates, involving their toddler, causing tension with his girlfriend.

And despite the OP calling this pattern out, what is Wills response?

But this time, Will thought he was being clever.

Instead of canceling the date, he just brought the kid along.

Text about a man’s ex disrupting his dates by demanding he take their toddler, causing frustration for his girlfriend.

But the OP wasnt having it.

She dipped without a word, leaving Will chasing her out of the restaurant like in a bad rom-com.

But was she too harsh?

Ex disrupts dates; man forced to care for toddler, frustrating girlfriend.

Its like a club where plans change fast and babysitters are worth more than gold.

Be cool when things get rescheduled, and understand that their child comes first.

Instead, focus on building trust with your partner and thekid.

Text exchange about a man’s ex influencing his dating life and custody of their toddler.

But is Will the bad guy here, or just someone doing his best under the circumstances?

Check out the results:

Mother and toddler son laughing together outside, surrounded by plants and a wooden fence.

Text message expressing a girlfriend’s frustration over a man’s ex affecting their relationship.

Text message reveals secret date plans disrupted by baby mama.

Text describing a date night interrupted by a man’s ex, leading to frustration.

Text describing a date cancellation, highlighting relationship and parenting issues.

Woman in a blue dress looks at her reflection in a mirror.

Text conversation about ex discovering dates and demanding childcare.

Text detailing a man bringing his son on a date due to an ex’s demands, causing frustration for his girlfriend.

Text about man’s ex affecting his dating life and toddler situation.

Text asking “but AITA?” related to man’s ex causing issues with dates.

Woman intensely reading a message on her phone, related to man’s ex and dates.

Text message discussing man’s ex and secret dates coincidence.

Text describing a woman’s experience with hostility from a man’s ex, affecting their dates.

Text in black font on a white background reads: “our ages are ranging between 25-30.

Two women having a serious conversation on a couch, one holding a phone, discussing relationship and parenting issues.

Text exchange discussing child support and custody issues involving a man and his ex, affecting his current relationship.

Reddit comment discussing custody, criticizing a man’s weak choices.

Comment discussing custody issues related to man’s ex finding out about his dates, affecting relationships.

Reddit user advises someone to leave a relationship with a man whose ex knows about his dates.

Text advice for a man whose ex tracks his dates, suggesting custody arrangements.

Reddit comment discussing custody issues and boundaries, related to a man’s ex and dating challenges.

Reddit comment discussing custody and legal arrangements after a breakup.