Because, apparently, cutting out paper hearts is a top-tier postpartum activity.
But her mom still expected her to continue helping even after she gave birth.
Herparentsinitially agreed to help out after the baby was born, which seemed like a much-needed relief.
The OP brushed it off at first, assuming shed understand how exhausting caring for a newborn would be.
But when the request came up againat 39 weeks pregnantshe realized her mom wasnt backing down.
Her mother, in turn, told her that when the baby fell asleep, she could always help.
Instead of understanding, her mother guilt-tripped her, claiming her grandparents would also be helping.
Between sleepless nights, recovery, and new responsibilities, many things take a back seat.
This is why taking on extra taskslike planning a weddingright after childbirth can feel completely unrealistic.
Having help is crucial during this period.
However, they acknowledge that this is a challenge for new moms.
While their intentions may be good, new moms dont have to agree to everyvisitor piece of advice.
Clear communication is key, and theres no need to justify every decision either.
Others called out her mothers lack of empathy and advised the OP to set firmer boundaries.
What do you think about this situation?
Do you think the new mom should have set even firmer boundaries, or was her response reasonable?
