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They say family is all about love, support, and showing up when it matters.

Because, in somefamilies, theres at least one person who treats everyone else like their personal problem-solving service.

Because the OP was very clear about not watching her kid when Lexi asked.

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When the OP realized what had happened, she called Lexi.

Over, and over, and over again.

Oh, she was deep in ignore mode, pretending she didnt just ditch her child.

A woman and man happily play with a young child in a bright room, symbolizing family togetherness.

Because, suddenly, Lexis phone worked again!

Dad, thats not the point!

Easy to say when you arent the one ambushed by anoverly-entitledmom.

Text about woman considering police call after bro’s GF leaves child without permission.

The key to dealing with them?

Guilt-trippingis the sneaky cousin of manipulation.

Recognize it for what it isemotional manipulation.

Text conversation about seeing family in the city and suburbs, highlighting infrequent visits to Lexi and Bella.

Stay firm, dont over-explain, and resist the urge to apologize for simply existing as an independent person.

So, was the OP in the wrong?

Well, forced caregiving is never okay, and consent applies to all relationshipsincluding family.

Text exchange about unplanned babysitting due to teacher strike. Woman declines to babysit for brother’s girlfriend’s child.

No one is obligated to providechildcarejust because theyre related to someone.

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