“Am I A [Jerk] For Bringing 6 People With Me To My Niece’s Wedding?”

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Planning a wedding is hard work.

Unfortunately, not for everybody.

While the bride had no issues with that, her mom kept criticizing him for being inconvenient.

Now, his niece recently got married and he received an invitation that said OPs Family on it.

The wedding was not big, just for family and close friends.

It said that he had been inconvenient and should have asked the couple about it.

But you know who still had a problem with the whole situation?

OPs sister, who still kept criticizing him.

Community members also backed up the author and discussed that he was not being a jerk in this situation.

NTA, your sister is wrong.

But when it comes to kids or no kids, thats a whole different dance.

To avoid such problems, couples should be clear and honest from the start.

Also, there is a whole guide onwedding invitation wordingjust for this purpose.

I think its not hard to guess that family expectations dont make the wedding planning process easier or smoother.

She also adds that you should always make a run at seek compromise and consensus.

And finally, be firm and consistent.

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