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Childbirth can be a beautiful but extremely difficult time.

That being said, nobodys perfect and nobodys a superhero.

At some point, you get tired andneed food, sleep, to use the bathroom, etc.

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Its only human, and everyone has their limits.

Its vital to support your partner and be by their side during labor.

But its also important to be practical.

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Childbirth and your stay at the hospital can last a very long while.

You have to look at the basics first.

When was the last time you ate?

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If youre starving, what are your options?

Is there a cafeteria at the hospital so youre close to your partner?

Are there any vending machines?

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Are there cafes or diners in the area?

Do you have to go back home to cook?

Are you sleeping properly, and are you in a good enough state to look after your partner?

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Where are you sleeping?

Are you staying at the hospital, or will you have to go back home?

So, obviously, your priority is to be there by your partners side.

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You go stretch your legs.

You grab a cup of mediocre coffee from the vending machine.

You chat with the medical staff and the other patients.

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Maybe you brought a book that youre reading during downtime.

Maybe youre calling up your and your partners relatives to inform them of any developments.

Theres a lot of things going on.

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And, of course, youre nearby when your partner needs you.

C-sections have their fair share of pros and cons.

For instance, if you have chronic back pain, you need a proper bed.

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According to The Mother Baby Center, vaginal birth isless riskythan a C-section.

The former also has a shorter recovery time, namely 2 to 6 weeks versus 6 to 8 weeks.

That being said, vaginal births can take longer and may be more painful.

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However, they also offer a unique experience both for the mom and her partner.

Your doctor may also suggest an emergencyC-sectionif your baby is in distress.

In the US, C-sections are fairly common, accounting for around 30% of all deliveries.

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