This guystarted questioning his girlfriends morals after she chose to believe hercreepy stepbrotherover his 15-year-old sister.
The woman saw nothing wrong with the sleazeball coming into the teens room to chat her up.
But her brother was having none of it and prioritized his sisters well-being and safety.
Inappropriately peeking in on a youth or entering their room without permission counts as inappropriate behavior as well.
The Mercer County Advocacy Centerexplainsthat adults invading the personal space of minors is not acceptable.
Or, at least, thats what the author himselfwrotein his update.
Law experts agree; according toMKFM Law, documenting the harassment can be important for future victims.
In her eyes, there was no hard proof and herstepbrotherended up doing nothing.
Experts saythat deflecting erodes trust and makes open communication difficult.
Other times, a partner might start acting defensive or playing the victim.
Psychotherapist Sharon Martinexplainsthat validating someones feelings doesnt automatically mean youre agreeing with them.
Martin also notes how invalidation is often a tactic used by abusers.
[They] turn things around and blame the victim and deny or minimize their abusive words or actions.
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