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Sometimes, unpleasant events can be ominous indicators of things to come.
And if you use your best judgment, you may end updodging a bullet.
A manwas about to marry into a chaotic family who showed him little respect.
Things came to a head when his in-lawsruined the rehearsal dinnerthrough their drunken behavior.
He hesitantly decided tobreak the engagement offand end the relationship altogether.
However, his now-ex-fiancee began manipulating him.
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That was a glaring red flag he ignored.
Experts say people have deep-seated reasons for overlooking these writings on the wall.
Challenging our intuition is a dangerous game because it blocks us from knowing primal truths, Avery wrote.
Some may also hold onto a chaotic relationship because they believe there is something worth fixing and fighting for.
The author admitted that he still loved his then-partner, and she was willing to make things work.
As Dr. Josephs points out, red flags indicate character flaws you will learn to accept and live with.
Dr. Josephs adds that it is about looking atred flagsmindfully.
Simply put, its viewing whats in front of you with compassion and zero judgment.
Determining whether the flaws are bearable or unfixable will make you decide whether to move forward or move on.
In the authors case, he made a sound judgment call by breaking off the relationship.
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