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Creatingtraditionswith your partner is a wonderful way to bond.

But when her husband asked if they could postpone the adventure, shereached outto Reddit for advice.

Below, youll find the full story, including suggestions that readers chimed in with.

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If we dont keep our own traditions alive, who will?

Dr. William J. Doherty atBoyle Counselingnotes that rituals are important for keeping a strong connection with your partner.

You dont have to worry aboutshopping, decorating or finishing all of your work beforeNew Years.

A couple discussing family traditions and new friendships on a couch in a living room.

you’re free to simply focus on being with the person you love and making new memories.

It doesnt matter; as long as you feel connected, the tradition is serving its purpose.

If you both hatearts and crafts, you probably wont want to go to a pottery class together.

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And if one of you isnt into sports, a physical activity might not be ideal.

The Wed also notes that you dont need to worry about something becoming a ritual or tradition immediately.

Feel it out, and see how much you enjoyed the experience.

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If it wasnt as much fun as you expected, you dont have to repeat it.

Check out the results:

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