But hisgirlfriendwas not so thrilled about it.
Exclusivity only became a thing 4 months ago, so its still pretty early days.
So far, so good.
Heres where it gets tricky.
The OP has been house hunting for a while because his current home just isnt cutting it.
Hisjobis a brutal 30-minute commute, and the boys school?
A dreaded 45-minute ride away.
I must say, I respect the hustle.
But when he shared the good news with his girlfriend, she wasnt exactly cracking initiate the bubbly.
Instead, she hit him with a Why didnt you consult me before?
Still, she wasnt convinced and felt hurt that she hadnt been included.
The OPs sister came through with a perspective check.
She pointed out that, at 32, his girlfriend might be looking at life through a long-term lens.
Carla Marie Manly, clinical psychologist, author andpodcasthost, to get her insights on this topic.
In the early phases, couples may make impulsive choices driven by passion and excitement.
Finally, we asked how communication plays a role in resolving disagreements about major decisions.
Dr. Manly highlighted that healthy communication is the foundation of a strong relationship.
So, is the OP the villain for snagging his dream home without a heads-up?
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