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Having a kid is a life-changing experience, and it shouldnt be done onimpulse.
This is the choice one woman had made for herself, and she believed herfiancewas on the same page.
Unfortunately, she soon learned that he wanted a child, whether she liked the idea or not.
Once she learned about thechild-freelifestyle, she realized that thats what she wanted for herself.
According tosurveys, around one-fifth of the population has chosen to be child-free.
Surbhi explained that going child-free by choice is a fairly new concept today.
People would still be okay with someone being childless but child-freethats too much for them to process.
Also, I feel most of them are projecting.
Maybe denial feels safer to their minds, she added.
He began to waver only after his sister had ababy.
The more time he spent with the child, the more he fell in love with his nephew.
Researchalso shows that contrary to popular opinion, men tend to want kids more than women.
This is often because they arent the ones having to shoulder the main responsibility of raising the child.
He probably didnt think too deeply about the responsibility involved.
He tried offering her solutions like adoption or giving herself more time to learn tolovekids.
Clearly, his mind changed when he met his nephew.
She said: to begin with, having an open dialogue may help.
Keep your reasons ready and give real-life examples from the world around to justify your choice even more.
With most people, dialogue may not always help.
At this stage, its important to stand your ground firmly from the beginning.
A couple always being firm together will always be hard to bother.
If nothing helps, make sarcasm your second language!
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