How sisters are spoiled, taken care of and defended from anybody who comes near them.
However, theserelationshipsare not always that beautiful.
Well, apparently there have been some financial mistakes and OPs brother ended up owing his friend $10K.
Theyre saying that Im very unsupportive and selfish, OP noted.
Community members were fully on the womans side and discussed that her brother was being a complete jerk.
Yea no man is paying $10,000 just for a dinner date.
He 100% expects [intercourse] as payment for your brothers debt.
Dont go on this date , its 100% not just a date, one user wrote.
She shared that women are often seen as adaptable and agreeable and therefore dispensable.
In some cultures, this is still true even from a modern perspective.
If it doesnt feel good to you, its probably because its not going to be, she said.
In a situation like this, they are putting their needs which are temporary first.
But your well-being, happiness and fulfillment are lifelong and only you know what the right choice is.
Redditors backed the woman up and shamed her brother and their parents
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