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There are certain expectations that come with being in aromantic relationship.

And you cant get there without good communication and constant transparency.

Getting engaged is a magical moment that many couples genuinely look forward to.

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Sure, it happens.

But it is quite rare, all things considered.

This is worrying, to put it lightly.

12 Years Down The Drain: Guy Finally Decides To Propose When He’s Ready, GF Says ‘No’

Different couples are bound to have different life goals and expectations.

Of course, not everyone wants this.

And there are many exceptions.

12 Years Down The Drain: Guy Finally Decides To Propose When He’s Ready, GF Says ‘No’

Someone might choose to get married but may not want to have children.

Someone else may want kids but may not see the point in marriage.

Meanwhile, some couples decide to become pet parents.

12 Years Down The Drain: Guy Finally Decides To Propose When He’s Ready, GF Says ‘No’

There are some major life decisions that are hard (if not impossible) to compromise on.

You might feel frustrated if you keep waiting for them to change their mind.

Honesty is fundamental to happy and healthy relationships.

12 Years Down The Drain: Guy Finally Decides To Propose When He’s Ready, GF Says ‘No’

Without it, the future looks wobbly

Naturally, its all heavy, emotional stuff.

Not quite something that youd discuss on the first date!

However, these are all topics that youll eventually need to tackle.

12 Years Down The Drain: Guy Finally Decides To Propose When He’s Ready, GF Says ‘No’

It takes a lot of courage to be honest with yourself about what you want from life.

It takes even more to be honest with your partner, knowing that they might have different goals.

But what do you think, dear Pandas?

12 Years Down The Drain: Guy Finally Decides To Propose When He’s Ready, GF Says ‘No’

What are your thoughts on the relationship dynamic between the author and his girlfriend?

What advice would you give both of them if you were in the same room?

Do you think theres such a thing as being too late with aproposal?

12 Years Down The Drain: Guy Finally Decides To Propose When He’s Ready, GF Says ‘No’

Heres how some internet users reacted after reading the viral post.

Check out the results:

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